You love getting it on—but in this day and age, who knows what’s lurking in your partner’s bloodstream? Nobody. Here’s how to stay safe.  You will need latex or polyurethane condoms, spermicide if you are trying to prevent pregnancy,  Water based personal lubricant, a female condom and dental dam.  Condoms are the best defense to STDs.  Keep them on hand. Exchange sexual history with your partner before sex.  Ask about incurable STDs. Ask about high risk behaviors.  Remember, people often lie about sex.  This video will teach you how to use a condom, spermicide and a dental dam.